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一段复杂也简单的爱情，一个典型的男人很理智地做了错事，一个典型的女人做了很多错事才变得理智，他俩一起走到了各自的交叉路口...

庸俗地提示下，这是个关于一个男人爱上一个女同性恋，一个女同性恋爱上一个男人的故事。呵呵

电影里的每句台词都很认真，很聪明。

力荐男女都看，但很多人可能会觉得：闷

片子看了一半，实在不怎么喜欢女主角，所以看不下去。再加上，我没有字幕，只听他们的连读英文让我头痛。所以，只好放弃。看别人写的剧情介绍补足，算是看完了……呵呵，剧情不予评论。Ben一般般，不是我喜欢的类型。嗯……

开场第三届曼哈顿漫展，一个人问给书签名的作者：周润发怎么样？作者答：不知道，我喜欢周润发，我还没看过他演疯子，棒极了！在大会上唯一的一个黑人，仇视白人的基佬漫画家胡波在台上演说一直骂脏话，说黑人在漫画里老是小丑角色，星战里的维德是星系中最黑的兄弟，一个努比亚人，是大家的精神支柱。然后脱下头盔却是虚弱的白人老头。作者意思是每个人都想成为白人。哈哈，黑人的种族歧视。班克和艾丽莎在酒吧大聊各自性经历，后来艾丽莎和霍登聊自己和女人做爱，有时把手掌伸进阴道里，我擦，太重口了。艾丽莎那总是微张的嘴和吐出的舌头，挑逗般的声音好有诱惑力，有点娃娃音，一种肉欲的感觉。在一番对艾丽莎爱的告白后，艾丽莎和他热吻起来，从来只和女人做爱的女同性恋被掰直了，好久没看到这么正能量的电影了。大概是唯一看过的同性恋被掰直的电影。现在的电影打不动就搞基，教坏，误导了儿童和年轻人的正常性取向。班克看到他们睡在一起惊呆了，饮料都掉地上。但其实艾丽莎从高中时就是骚货，恶名远扬。在家里和两个男生3P同时插，所以外号“双插”，和26岁男人在高中舞会中途在轿车做爱后面坐着一个人，在大学做爱时让对方录像。霍登知道艾丽莎向他道歉，说她现在只爱他，但他不能接受分手。本·阿弗莱克过去演的<疯狂店员>中拿着收音机唱歌的两个搞笑毒贩凯文·史密斯和杰克·理查德森 又出现了。霍登找来班克和艾丽莎，吻了班克说班克讨厌同性恋可能他是同性恋爱霍登，嫉妒艾丽莎所以反对霍登和她在一起，他们三个应该一起做爱才能解决所有事。艾丽莎拒绝离开了，霍登和班克也不再合作一起住。霍登后来在漫展上看到班克只是远远手势交流和好，没有讲话。他想再约艾丽莎，但艾丽莎又变成了女同性恋。唉，有些事还是不要说出来才好，一说就没法挽回了。凯文·史密斯电影台词功力了得，十分紧凑幽默。

True touch of life emotions. honest, raw, melodramatic, but its all part of life.

The movie deals things among friends, lovers and anything in between. How are we define our loving feelings towards another human being, how are we identify ourselves emotionally and sexually, how are we cope with one's past and what they are thinking about us.

True love is that hard to find, but when we find it, we try everything on it, we question, we test, we doubt, we wonder. It is human nature, we want to vindicate over and over again, that love is unique, is pure, is never be touched by anyone. I guess we just want to feel special, but we are special, with or without. Love is powerful, but lovers can be damaged for good. When we desperately seek equality and balance in love, it tilts unexpectly to the other side.

There are two kinds of people in the world, 90% is narrative, about one tenth are episodic. When I say narrative, it means people are affected and shaped by what they experience, something in the past can change someone's character; while episodic people don't believe past things can change them, they see their past and future separately. Maybe Alyssa is an episodic, but that doesn't mean people look at the way she thinks everyone looks at her. It partly explains why she falls back to her own way in the end.

Love is easy, loving a person is never easy (apart from living with one). We are sometimes forced to confront their issues past, present and future, we get frustrated easily. But the power comes from within, that willingness to take on that person wholly and completely, believing that he/she is really the missing part of the puzzle, and accepting the aching truth that he/she's done something you don't want to acknowledge.

Next time, when love comes along, don't hesitate, don't question, just enjoy the company of another soul that really gets you.